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How do you learn how to make women feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for you using your PERSONALITY instead of your wallet (and wussy inner child)?

Isn’t This Manipulating Women?

In the thousands of emails that I get, I have a lot of guys who ask or say things like:

“David, your ideas sound like they’d work, but I don’t like the idea of “MANIPULATING” a woman…”

“I want a woman to like me for “who I am”… I don’t want to be pretending like I’m someone else…”

“I want to “be myself”… I don’t like the idea of pretending to be someone that I’m not…”

And I’ll tell you, these are all valid points.
I can remember years ago thinking to myself:

“A lot of these guys I know who are good at attracting women are kind of jerks… a lot of them don’t have integrity… some of them lie…” etc.

I didn’t like the idea of trying to become someone that I wasn’t just to meet women.
But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that I WAS MANIPULATING WOMEN EVEN WORSE WITH THE THINGS I WAS DOING TO BE “MYSELF.

Let me explain.

Here’s a list of some of the strategies and tactics I used in the past when trying to attract women on adultfrinendfinder:
1) Buying food
2) Buying flowers
3) Buying gifts
4) Acting “nice” even when I didn’t feel like it
5) Accepting manipulative behavior from them
6) Letting them talk me into things I didn’t want to do
7) Taking them places to impress them
8) Kissing up to them to get their approval
9) Listening to their problems when I didn’t want to

And the list goes on and on…

My point is simple:

I (AND MOST OF THE GUYS I KNOW) HAVE BEEN DOING THINGS TO MANIPULATE WOMEN ALL OF OUR LIVES, BUT BECAUSE MOST OF THESE THINGS ARE SEEN AS SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE, EXPECTED BY THE WOMAN, OR AS “BEING OURSELVES” WE DON’T SEE IT FOR WHAT IT PLAINLY IS:

MANIPULATION.

Us guys use every kind of manipulation tactic in the book to try to get women to go out with us, sleep with us, marry us, etc.

But when I suggest that men start BEHAVING AND COMMUNICATING differently in order to be more attractive to women, they often say “Oh, but I don’t feel good about that because I wouldn’t be being “myself” and I would be “manipulating her”.


See where I’m going with this?

Well, I have news for you.

WOMEN KNOW THAT YOU’RE TRYING TO MANIPULATE THEM WHEN YOU BUY THEM THINGS, TAKE THEM TO DINNER, AND PURSUE THEM!!! Really, they do.

If you ask a woman to dinner, she knows that what you’re REALLY saying is:

“Hi, um… I don’t know how to actually be ATTRACTIVE to you, so maybe I could BUY YOU SOMETHING and you could FEEL OBLIGATED or SEE WHAT A NICE GUY I AM as a result of it.”

Of course, the woman that you try this on ACTUALLY says to herself: “Oh, another wuss who’s going to try to win me over with free food and flowers.”

Now, don’t get me wrong: If you try this tactic on enough women, for a long enough time, you’re bound to find one that will either not be able to attract a “non-wuss” (unlike yourself), or one who will marry you just to get you to stop calling her three times a day (and wanting sex so much… LOL!).

I know that sounded crass (and it was), but think about it.

The truth is painful sometimes, isn’t it?

Well, after hitting my own head against the wall for about 10 years like this, I’ve finally realized that there’s a better way.

But part of that better way was realizing that LEARNING HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN WAS LESS “MANIPULATING” THAN THE OLD WAY OF BUYING FOOD AND GIFTS AND CHASING AFTER HER.

In fact, the “new way” of “manipulating” women is actually one that WOMEN WANT YOU TO DO!!!

Yep, you read that right. In general, WOMEN WANT A GUY WHO ACTS THIS WAY… EVEN IF IT’S NOT HIS “NATURAL” WAY OF BEHAVING.

And here’s the profound part:

If you learn to use your PERSONALITY to cause women to feel ATTRACTION for you, YOU will all-of-a-sudden be the one who’s in control of the outcome.

You will no longer have to walk around hoping that you can find a woman that will agree to “go out on a date with you.”

You will no longer have to buy food and gifts for women in order to get them to pay attention to you.

You’ll have women calling you up because they just can’t get you off of their minds… for some mysterious reason…

So how do you do this?

How do you learn how to make women feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for you using your PERSONALITY instead of your wallet (and wussy inner child)?

You have basically two choices:
1) Get over your old ideas of “I want to be myself and have her like me for who I am…” then go HERE.

…and read it, learn it, and use it.
2) Keep doing what you’ve always done, and keep getting the results that you’ve always gotten.

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